The Disruption: Rethinking Ministry & Masculinity
For too long, ministry has centered on men leading and women following, but Michael Neely warns that we cannot heal the body of Christ while neglecting its most vulnerable members. This is not just a ministry; it’s a sacred disruption. The Church has traditionally told men to lead, provide, and protect, yet this message often distorts into control and silence. Michael asserts that true masculinity in Christ does not dominate but instead surrenders power to uplift others.
Old Masculinity
The Lies They Were Taught
- “Real men don’t cry.”
- “Head of household = ruler of the home.”
- “Anger is strength.”
- “Submission is love.”
New Masculinity
The Freedom Offered
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Real men repent.
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Strength is measured by gentleness.
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Headship means sacrifice, not supremacy.
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Submission is never demanded—it’s mutual.
From Power to Presence
Michael teaches that masculinity isn’t proven in control—it’s proven in how well you show up, listen, and protect the vulnerable.
From Shame to Accountability
Healing starts when men stop hiding behind anger and start doing the hard work of confession, counseling, and change.
From Silence to Solidarity
Men in church aren’t called to be silent bystanders. They’re called to be brothers, allies, and truth-tellers.
Want to disrupt the cycle of silence and shame in your men’s ministry?
It starts with honesty. It ends with freedom.
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”
— Ephesians 5:25