Reverend Michael Neely
Domestic Violence Champion and Counselor
God, Silence, and Survival
Michael Neely & the Movement to Unchurch Domestic Violence
Michael's Story
Michael once hid bruises behind his Bible. Now he helps others rewrite their stories.
Reclaiming the Pulpit
Be part of a growing community that believes faith should liberate, not silence.
The Unspoken Epidemic in the Pews
Domestic violence isn’t just happening in churches—it’s often protected by them, hidden behind misused scripture and wrapped in silence. It’s time to break that silence and tell the truth: abuse has no place in the house of God.
"The most dangerous lies are the ones cloaked in holy language."
-Reverend Michael Neely
Black Eyes And Sweet Talk: A Biblical Perspective On Domestic Violence
Pastor Michael Neely is a passionate advocate for survivors of domestic violence, now sharing his faith journey to help others. Many Christian victims have remained in abusive marriages believing it’s God’s will. In this book, Pastor Michael offers a biblical yet controversial perspective on domestic violence and marriage, helping to free captives from false guilt and the misconception that staying and praying is God’s intent. This unique work, written from the viewpoint of a male victim and survivor, guides readers through healing and provides a true understanding of forgiveness, reconciliation, and love.
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Black Eyes and Sweet Talk: Where Theology Meets Truth
Faith as a Weapon or Lifeline
Too often, outdated doctrines and twisted scriptures keep survivors trapped in silence. But Michael Neely offers a different way—one where faith becomes a path to freedom, not a life sentence.
Read more about how he’s reclaiming the Word for the wounded.
The Three People Michael Neely Refuses to Let the Church Forget
Each faces a different struggle, but Michael Neely is the bridge—offering hope, training, and truth where it’s needed most.
Read more about how Michael is transforming lives, one step at a time.
The Disruption: Rethinking Ministry, Rethinking Masculinity
Michael Neely challenges the status quo by showing that leaving an abusive marriage can be a godly act, integrating faith with survivor care. His lived experience transforms the way churches view abuse—and opens the door for true healing.
“God Wants You Free”: A New Theology for Survivors
Michael is rewriting the gospel for survivors—one that acknowledges abuse, promotes healing, and holds institutions accountable. He’s not just offering counsel; he’s leading a movement to transform the church itself.
Reclaiming the Pulpit: What’s Next for Michael Neely
Michael isn’t done—he’s just getting started. With bold plans to train churches, publish healing resources, and speak truth on national stages, he’s turning his mission into a movement.
The Book That Breaks the Silence
Trace Michael’s journey from survivor to pastor to advocate and discover how Black Eyes Sweet Talk emerged as a bold response to the harmful narratives that bind victims by getting the book today.
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